How to Get Your Wife to Lust for You
The “husbands” tag will lead you to several posts intended to help husbands be more attractive to their wives, including topics like clothes, muscles, hygiene, and improving her orgasms. Today I’m...
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How Much Sex Do Other People Have?
Other people aren’t having as much sex as you may think. The numbers here are for men and women between 18 and 29, and the “reality” number is self-reported, so take it with a grain of salt....
View ArticleHow Birth Control Pills Affect Women’s Brains
First off, let me say that we’re not advocating for or against the use of birth control pills. We used them, and when we decided we were done having kids we stopped using pills and selected a permanent...
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How to Use Classical Conditioning to Enhance Your Sex Life
We’ve written a little about classical conditioning before (When My Wife Puts Her Hair Up, Husband’s Hands When Wife Is On Top) and readers have asked for a bit more detail, so here it goes. First,...
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Sex in Space Sounds Hard
Have you ever wanted to have sex in space? This in-depth analysis makes space-sex sound like a lot of work. “Even the lightest touch can make it difficult to stay in contact if both persons are not...
View ArticleUseless Science: Sex and Happiness Are Associated
Brilliant new research indicates that older people are happier if they’re sexually active. That’s not surprising, but I’m shocked to see how little a difference sex makes. In the new research, Smith...
View ArticleSleep Naked and Wake up Early
Sleep and sex really seem to complement each other, and not just because you’re likely to do them in the same place. If you want to sleep better and have more and better sex, try sleeping naked and...
View ArticleFor Female Arousal, Excitement Is Better than Relaxation
Dr. Cindy M. Meston from the University of Texas at Austin explains that the key to female sexual arousal is excitement, not relaxation. “For years we were told, ‘Have a bubble bath, calm down, listen...
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How to Create Your Sexual Bucket List and Share It With Your Spouse
A survey of 2,000 sexually active American adults has revealed the top activities that are on our sexual bucket lists. (It’s a little hard to read, but that’s the best image I could find.) It may not...
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4 Ways a Wife Can Increase Her Husband’s Life Expectancy
Although we’re all living longer, the life expectancy for men remains about five years shorter than for women. We all know about the obvious things a man can do to increase his life expectancy: stay...
View ArticleAntibiotics and Birth Control Myth
Being sick enough to require antibiotics is bad enough, but then just as you’re feeling better there’s more bad news: antibiotics mess with your birth control. Using an “alternate method of birth...
View ArticleSwallowing Semen Cures Morning Sickness
Are you pregnant and suffering with morning sickness? Great news! Swallowing your husband’s semen will cure your nausea! Well, maybe… but better safe than sorry, I always say. So what does Gallup say...
View ArticleBest Sex Positions For People with Back Pain
Here’s an interesting study that looked at the most comfortable sexual positions for people with back pain. The most common advice that physicians give is for couples to use the spooning position to...
View ArticleFrequent Sex Is Good For Brain Health
A new study says that maintaining an active sex life is good for the health of your brain. Older guys who get laid regularly have better “brain health” and are less likely to lose memory, according to...
View ArticleFaking Orgasms — Husbands and Wives Both Do It
Several recent studies show that up to 30% of men admit to faking an orgasm with their current partner. The potential for a woman to “fake it” is a common trope, but it’s often ignored that men can...
View ArticleDon’t Underestimate Your Wife’s Sex Drive
A new study presents data suggesting that husbands underestimate their wives’ sexual desire. In 3 dyadic studies, we provide evidence that men in established romantic relationships err in the direction...
View Article“Most Women Prefer to Go Bare, Citing Hygiene”
We’ve written about shaving for husbands and wives before, and the practice is increasingly seen as “the new normal”, especially for women. However, despite what most women seem to think, the benefits...
View ArticleSex and Oxytocin Help You Stay Slim and Happy
If you need yet another sciencey reason to have more sex consider this: sex releases oxytocin, and oxytocin helps keep you slim. Forget eating salad and pounding on the treadmill – regular sex can help...
View ArticleReading Your Wife’s Sexual Indicators of Interest
We already know that it’s common for a husband to underestimate his wife’s sex drive — women tend to be a lot more subtle than men, to such an extent that your wife herself might not even know when...
View ArticleCo-Sleeping with Babies Increases Stress and Reduces Sex
The results from this study on co-sleeping aren’t surprising in the least! While some parents find co-sleeping helps to make nights with a baby more manageable, others find the constant caregiving and...
View ArticleGet Some Sun, Have Better Sex
Here’s a fascinating study about using light therapy to increase the libido of men with low sex drives. Don’t worry, it’s not some hippy thing! Exposure to bright light – similar to daylight – boosts...
View ArticleBest Christian Sex Links of the Week
It’s been a while since since we’ve done a link round-up! How it feels to undress in front of your spouse: goofy! But here are some tips for how to do a strip tease and three reasons its sexy to strip...
View ArticleSex and Garlic
We’ve written a lot about how good sex is for your health, so it shouldn’t surprise you that sex is also helpful for reducing the risk and impact of atherosclerosis (the build up of fatty deposits in...
View ArticleHow a Husband can Improve His Wife’s Orgasms
If you’re a husband like me, then you love giving your wife a huge, body-shaking, scream-inducing orgasm. There’s just about nothing better. Most advice for more and better orgasms focuses on...
View ArticleHow Do You Feel Immediately After Sex?
I thought this would be a fun discussion topic for a Friday: a new study is investigating how people feel immediately after sexual activity. “There are a wide range of responses in the period of time...
View ArticleScience: “The ‘quickie’ saved my marriage”
In a completely surprising turn of events, scientists are suggesting that frequent sex may be the key to a happy marriage! During the 14-day study period, couples reported having sex on an average of 4...
View ArticlePop Quiz for Wives: How Can You Tell When Your Husband’s Orgasm Is Over?
If you said, “he ejaculates!”, then you’d better keep reading. Most people think that female sexuality is more complicated than male sexuality — I love this illustration. And… ok, it’s probably true!...
View ArticleHow to Make Most of the Size You’ve Got
This post is also available as a podcast: Podcast #008: How to Make the Most of the Size You’ve Got I think that unmarried men worry more about penis size than husbands do, but penis anxiety is pretty...
View ArticleHow to Get Deeper Penetration
This post is also available as a podcast: Podcast #008: How to Make the Most of the Size You’ve Got We recently wrote about how to make the most of the size you’ve got and talked a bit about penis...
View ArticleEjaculation Reduces Risk of Prostate Cancer
Yet another post about how science indicates that sex is good for you! In this case, a long-term study followed adult men for 18 years and found that frequent ejaculation reduces the risk of prostate...
View ArticleAre Facebook and Netflix Damaging Your Sex Life?
New research shows that Americans are having less sex than 20 years ago and suggests that the decline might be due in part to improvements in electronic diversions like Facebook and Netflix. American...
View ArticleTake Joy in Giving Pleasure
Hannah Smothers at Cosmo is mad at husbands who enjoy giving orgasms to their wives. It’s not enough that men are already having more orgasms than women. To make matters worse, a new study published in...
View ArticleSleep and Sex Are Better Than Wealth
Proverbs 15:16 says: “Better is a little with the fear of the Lord than great treasure and trouble with it.” Psalm 127:2 says: “In vain you rise early and stay up late, toiling for food to eat — for he...
View ArticleCome Brag About Your Holiday Sex
We hope that you all had a great Christmas and New Year! The holiday season is often stressful, but did you know that it’s also the catalyst for a yearly September baby boom? It’s often wryly observed...
View ArticleBetter Sleep Leads to Better Sex, Which Leads to Better Sleep
Do you want to have more and better sex? Get plenty of sleep. According to a large new study, women over age 50 who get fewer than seven hours of sleep are less likely to report being sexually active...
View ArticleSpontaneous and Responsive Sexuality
Are you ever confused by your own sexual arousal? By what turns you on and when? Or… maybe you’re confused by your spouse. Why doesn’t she ever initiate sex? Why is he always so turned on? The “he” and...
View ArticlePodcast #015: You Should Sleep Naked, Even in Winter
Sleeping naked is good for your health and your marriage — but how can you stay warm while sleeping naked in the winter? If this podcast is a blessing to you, please leave us a 5-star review on iTunes...
View ArticleSolve Your Marriage Difficulties By Having Sex
We get emails from people every day who are having problems of various kinds in their marriage, and the simplest, most direct solution is often just have sex. Obviously this isn’t true in every single...
View ArticleHusbands can Learn from What Women Look For in Casual Sex Partners
Wives aren’t looking for casual sex partners (hopefully!), but husbands can learn a few things from the preferences of women who are looking for casual sex. Let’s look at the six elements listed in the...
View ArticleSperm Swim in Spirals
Here’s a fun tongue-twister of story for Friday morning: scientists just discovered that human sperm swim with a spiral motion, not by swishing side-to-side. Using state-of-the-art 3D microscopy, a...
View ArticleSexual Stimulation Promotes Openness and Agreeableness
Research confirms that people will say just about anything to get laid and the linked article frames this phenomenon as a form of deception, but I think it’s more useful to view it as enhanced...
View ArticleImprove Sex By Focusing on the Peak and the End
This post will share ideas about how to use the happy-ending effect and the peak-end rule to improve your sexual encounters. Sex doesn’t always go perfectly, and that’s ok! Sometimes we build up grand...
View ArticleFour Techniques for Female Pleasure: Angling, Rocking, Shallowing, and Pairing
OMGYes has released a Pleasure Report that describes four penetration techniques that are reported to be the most pleasurable for most women. “We asked thousands of women what they do to experience...
View ArticleBest Christian Sex Links of the Week
Here are some fun sex links to kick off summer! A Wife Who Enjoys Giving Oral Sex? YES! — See also: Q&A: How Do I Get My Wife to Swallow and Enjoy It?, Three More Female Perspectives on Giving Oral...
View ArticleUse Breast-Play to Bond With Your Spouse via Oxytocin
Communication is always a great place to start, but here’s a biological trick you can use to jump-start intimacy and bonding with your spouse: play with the wife’s breasts. Breast-play releases the...
View ArticleTestosterone Affects Women Too
Everyone knows that testosterone has a significant effect on men, but many people don’t realize that T levels affect women also. Most women have probably never had their testosterone measured during a...
View ArticleShould I Tan My Balls?
Apparently ball-tanning is a thing now? We’ve written about testicular hygiene and shaving, but the idea of tanning my balls is new to me. What’s the supposed benefit of ball-tanning? One hypothesis is...
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